Body Shaming !
04 Sep 2018 #Sex Education
रहमन इस सँसार म, भाँत भाँत के लोग।
सबसु हल मल चालय, जो तारा संजोग।।
Wondering why I started with this?
Well almost everyone must have come across this
and related it to the heart of a person but just for a
moment, a brief moment, think and think why can't it
be for body!
In this society, everyone is concerned about how they
look or how they portray themselves in front of the
world and in front of the people around them. Ever
stopped and thought about how often we were told
to change ourself, our body, our manners, our life, our
identification, just because people don't like the way
we are. I have been wondering for years that how
cloself have I affected them or their lives but to my
surprise, I didn't find even a single reason, none at all.
Even the magazines, YouTube channels, and many
other social media advertisement are promoting these
type of practices and telling us to adapt ways to hide
our imperfections without actually knowing anything
about us, much less of our appearance. The world is
somehow all about having perfect body with no fats
and if sadly you're a person with body fats people start
criticizing you in every possible ways and tell you to
manage yourself. It doesn't matter for them that their
criticism can lower the self-esteem of the very person.
Body shaming manifest a person in many ways, they
start criticizing their own appearance through judgement
or comparison to another person whom they
think looks great in every aspect. The most important
question is why a person is judged by their physical
body appearance? Why is that we have laws for
ruining someone's body by touching but not for ruining
someone's life for lowering their pride and confidence?
Why is a person is judged again and again just
because people around them think that the person
is not beautiful enough physically? Why what people
think have to affect oneself? Why can't we ignore such
remarks and be positive about how we carry ourself?
I would leave this questions answered because some
things are for self introspection. Think hard and if you
fail to conclude, drop us a message. We are there for
You are beautiful in your own way, appreciate what you
have and love yourself. Your confident and comfort in
your own skin can make you bold and beautiful.
Be brave, be beautiful.
Be honest, be confident.