Body Shaming !

04 Sep 2018 #Sex Education

रहमन इस सँसार म, भाँत भाँत के लोग।

सबसु हल मल चालय, जो तारा संजोग।।

Wondering why I started with this?

Well almost everyone must have come across this

and related it to the heart of a person but just for a

moment, a brief moment, think and think why can't it

be for body!

In this society, everyone is concerned about how they

look or how they portray themselves in front of the

world and in front of the people around them. Ever

stopped and thought about how often we were told

to change ourself, our body, our manners, our life, our

identification, just because people don't like the way

we are. I have been wondering for years that how

cloself have I affected them or their lives but to my

surprise, I didn't find even a single reason, none at all.

Even the magazines, YouTube channels, and many

other social media advertisement are promoting these

type of practices and telling us to adapt ways to hide

our imperfections without actually knowing anything

about us, much less of our appearance. The world is

somehow all about having perfect body with no fats

and if sadly you're a person with body fats people start

criticizing you in every possible ways and tell you to

manage yourself. It doesn't matter for them that their

criticism can lower the self-esteem of the very person.

Body shaming manifest a person in many ways, they

start criticizing their own appearance through judgement 

or comparison to another person whom they

think looks great in every aspect. The most important

question is why a person is judged by their physical

body appearance? Why is that we have laws for

ruining someone's body by touching but not for ruining

someone's life for lowering their pride and confidence?

Why is a person is judged again and again just

because people around them think that the person

is not beautiful enough physically? Why what people

think have to affect oneself? Why can't we ignore such

remarks and be positive about how we carry ourself?

I would leave this questions answered because some

things are for self introspection. Think hard and if you

fail to conclude, drop us a message. We are there for

you always.

You are beautiful in your own way, appreciate what you

have and love yourself. Your confident and comfort in

your own skin can make you bold and beautiful.

Be brave, be beautiful.

Be honest, be confident.

Be you!

-By Neelima Mishra